There’s a t-shirt with that phrase on it – thinking about getting one. I read a great series on this blog today. (There are 4 parts!)
I have a lot of thoughts running around in my head about bearing one another’s burdens and how to really do that – especially the part about letting others bear mine. Having been burned when I’ve opened up to people, I am hesitant to do it again. I make some sort of vow that “I won’t be hurt again.” But really, I’m shooting myself in the foot when I do that. I know it, but I stay in my shell anyway. Part of me says I do it to protect myself, but part of me thinks it is just sinful. I am conflicted.
One day at 7-11, a lady almost ran into me. She apologized profusely. I looked her in the eye and could see pain. She must have felt she could open up to me because she then proceeded to tell me about finding out a dear relative had just been diagnosed with breast cancer. I placed my hand on her arm and told her I was sorry to hear it and that I would pray for her loved one. She was grateful. How is it that I can so easily take on someone else’s burden yet I will not give anyone mine?
It’s much less painful to be superficial. But it’s shallow and doesn’t make for a very meaningful life. Life is just messy. I need to figure out how to jump in the mire and live. I guess when it comes down to it, I just don’t like to get dirty.